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BREAKUP to MAKEUP: Get Your Ex Back FAST: (Dating & Relationship Advice for Women) by Lanie Stevens
Table of Contents
Introduction
He Loved You Once & He Will
Love You Again
Why No Contact Works & When
To Use It
Can We Just Be Friends?
Is He Worth The Effort?
First Contact & How To Handle
It
Time To Get Serious!
New Confident You
He Wants To See You
A Future Together
Introduction
I have been counseling women of all ages, religions, races, and occupations for more than 20 years. In this time I have found that very few, if any, were prepared for the dissolution of a relationship commonly called a “breakup”. Whether it was a marriage, a long or short-term relationship, or even an infatuation I found that women were unable to move forward and literally became emotionally paralyzed by the event. There is nothing that leaves you feeling less powerful than being dumped by a man! It is this feeling of abandonment and helplessness that drives women to do crazy things that push the guy away even more. Don’t let this happen to you!
A breakup is as devastating as death and just about as hard to get over. It can totally destroy a woman’s
self-confidence and I have seen it take years to fully recover in the absence
of help from an outsider. As a relationship counselor, it has been my duty and
privilege to guide and empower women in every area of their lives. Having been
there myself I know the difficulties of facing a life without the person you
dreamed of being by your side. I also know how to get him back as you grow
stronger and stronger each day. Being so empowered that you will not actually
“need” him to make you feel whole and purposeful. He will be an addition to
your happy life and your world will no longer revolve around him.
If you find yourself facing an
emotional challenge, such as the unexpected loss of your mate’s love, this book
will help to empower you and move forward with your life. There is nothing
positive that can be accomplished by sitting around mourning the loss of
someone and possibly doing the exact opposite of what should be done to win the
person back if they even deserve to be in your life again, and that is
something only you can decide. Take a positive step today and allow me to guide
you to the “new you”. The strong, positive, independent, wonderful woman that
every man desires – not just the “ex” you want to attract.
This is the fourth book in my best selling “FOR WOMEN ONLY” series that was created to help my sisters excel in love. Enjoy!
This list will remind you of things to do to regain control of your life, your mate, and your happiness:
- Be open and honest about what you desire from your “ex” as well as all men
- Don’t accept less than you deserve
- Choose the man and don’t fall into a relationship because he chose you
- Use your imagination and visualization to create a life through the Law of Attraction
- Don’t condone or accept behavior that is unacceptable
- Forgive him and yourself so you can heal
- Don’t be too eager when he contacts you because when you are he will instinctively back away
- Keep your cool and set your goals for your relationship
- Use affirmations daily to strengthen your resolve, increase your self-esteem and empower your life
- Be willing to move on should he not live up to your expectations
- Stay busy and engaged with friends and dates
- Rejection is an opportunity for selection – don’t settle!
- Remember, there are millions of men in the world so he isn’t the best catch possible however much you may love him
I wish you a long, happy relationship with your loved one and I have no doubts that will happen. Stay strong because you will never have what you desire through weakness. Many blessings to you!
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